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Honey, you’re 43. If you wanted a good man and a family....which is what most guys want....you should have taken care of this 15-20 years ago. It’s too late now.

BTW, the propaganda the feminists tell you is a recipe for a lifetime of loneliness. DO NOT wait until you are in your 30s. That’s too late. Guys want a girl who still has at least some of her youth. That is never going to change by the way. It’s biological. No amount of attempted societal browbeating by feminists is going to make men not heavily prefer younger women.

I was 45 when I remarried. When I met my husband-to-be, I wore no makeup and wore a baggy, unrevealing set of workout clothes. I was also drenched in perspiration. He asked if I needed help (haha--I was a progressive resistance lifter), began a conversation, and totally cracked me up. He was funny, smart, and turned out to be a really good person. I wasn't after a "relationship"; however, who doesn't like making friends with nice people?

I had a wonderful friend who married a divine man; they had two beautiful children. The husband died of a brain tumor. Should she have been consigned to some sort of trash heap because, for whatever reason, she was in her 30's and lost her precious mate?