The victim was only a couple of years older than their oldest son, IIRC; I thought they were in the same school.
Yes, he was a victim; never mind the macho BS - he was a father at 14 because he was molested by his teacher (who was about 35 at the time). If the genders were reversed, nobody would even dispute this.
Yes, at 14, what does a kid know. Would any other 14 year old boy say “no”? I doubt it. He was probably flattered by her attention, and she took advantage of his innocence. She should still be in prison. Who knows what he would have achieved in his life had she not seduced him for her own selfish reasons.