Posted on 03/15/2019 1:52:11 PM PDT by RightGeek
Rebecca Alexanders worst experience dining while large happened just after she nailed a promotion at a nonprofit organization.
She took her staff, and her new boss, to lunch at a promising downtown restaurant in Portland, Ore., where she lives. As the hostess led the group to a booth, Ms. Alexander, a 31-year-old who wears a size 30, knew in an instant there was no way she was going to squeeze into it.
I remember having this out-of-body experience, she said. I watched myself sit down and try to get in even though I knew the space was too small, because I so needed it to fit. Defeated, she asked for a table. The hostess told her there would be a half-hour wait.
The cherry on top was that I got to be the reason we had to stand around for 30 minutes, she said.
For people who identify as large, plus-size or fat, dining out can be a social and physical minefield. Chairs with arms or impossibly small seats leave marks and bruises. Meals are spent in pain, or filled with worry that a flimsy chair might collapse.
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Heck, all of that sounds pretty good. Why worry, it won’t add a day to your life.
If a rebalance of gut bacteria and metabolism could help, I hope modern medicine figures out a way to get it that way and keep it that way.
Why people strut around boasting about a hand that they never dealt themselves is beyond my ken. It turns “conservatism” into little-mindedness. I’ve seen some of the fattest people with the most beautiful souls. Nobody is going to be on this earth forever, so overall life quality matters more than dogged longevity.
In ancient days, a certain degree of fatness was more directly equated with health (as witnessed by, e.g., Old Testament bible texts). Or to reference another culture: have you ever seen a skinny Buddha (an icon of contentment)?
Modern pursuits are more sedentary, which add to the problem. Exercise turns out to not just be worth the calories directly burned, but to push metabolism itself towards a more even keel.
Yes, I agree. Our bodies are meant to move but the brain, mine at least, wants to do the least amount of exertion possible.
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