“Humility
Hard working
Generally courteous
Not addicted to drugs or alcohol”
That. Those who post about large wallets must be men without a clue.
As a man with a large wallet, I've found that many women find that uncomfortably attractive. The same women also like the fact that I am unavailable and go overboard to make their point clear when I miss the more subtle hints. It's not that men who say this are clueless, it's that they are only talking about some women - and not the cream of the crop among women.