I’m acutely aware that men aren’t blameless.
We’re named as the problem too often for any man to not notice.
It’s practically been codified into law.
Even you have fallen into the pattern in your assumption that I’m a “fetisher”. Instantly on the offense for a simple attempt to defend men who are largely lumped in with the rest that give us a bad name.
“I presume” that every post I read is a combination of letters arranged by someone’s fingertips as a presentation of an opinion based on experience or conjecture. There are no faces, colors, ages, nor genders.
“I presume” the vast majority of white women are not the afore mentioned “bad eggs”.
I am merely a young white man who’s had the misfortune to meet repeated “bad eggs” and been wronged enough to have an opinion.
Being a national scapegoat and used as a convenience isn’t exactly conducive to looking favorably at native born as marriageable options, no matter the gender.
I do agree, however, that we all have personal anecdotes.
And that they’re useless.
Ah, so you’re just being the devil’s advocate. Not a fetisher yourself. Sorry for that presumption, but can you really blame me in this thread?
But read the posts: the very fact these guys feel free to openly comment and quip to each other - as if it was a private conversation no less - about white females and yellow as well, indicates just how comfortable they are, thinking they are in a white-male environment (or at least, all male - black guys might also hold these opinions).
It is the same way I feel where I live (all my life, much worse in the last decade). Not only do I feel as a conservative, I better keep my mouth shut, but these commie libs here feel free to constantly glibly bring up politics in such a way that PRESUMES they will be speaking only to their comrades in liberalism. Work is a minefield of discussions openly about how bad Trump is, how we have to have abortion for our daughters, and how evil anyone is who doesn’t like enabling illegals and Moslems (as the college DOES). Even the bosses do it IN OFFICIAL CAPACITY, as if they KNOW they’re safe to talk like libs, because, you know, everyone here is a flaming lib!
So the guys here act - like they are in a bubble of guys only, mostly 100% white, etc.