Posted on 02/10/2019 6:56:27 PM PST by EdnaMode
“Oh, God, another Asian girl/white boy couple,” I groan, dropping my fiancé’s hand.
He hates it when I do this. So do I, really. I know it’s unkind and self-loathing, but every time I see another couple of our racial makeup, a little part of me sinks. We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills. In these moments, I wish we were anything else ― that he were my gay best friend or we were startup co-founders, that he were Asian and I were white, that we were exquisitely ambiguous races, or that I could sink like my feelings into the sidewalk, be a little worm, and date whomever I want without considering social perception.
Shame is neither the wisest nor most mature part of oneself, but it still has a voice. “Stop it you guys!” my shame wants to say to these other couples. “Can’t you see the more of us there are, the worse it looks?”
“It” meaning the prevalent trend of Asian women seeming to end up with white men. “It” meaning the perpetuation of Asian fetish.
The first time I heard the term ”Asian fetish,” I was the only Chinese kid in a tiny school. Other students in my class had been pairing up to date since fifth grade, exchanging love notes and making each other Alanis Morissette mixtapes. I waited for my ”Jagged Little Pill” cassette, but nothing came in fifth grade. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth.
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They’ve finally gotten to the orientals.
Everyone hates whites now and they’re focused all on that, now, instead of working and getting ahead. We’re toast, as a country.
Oh good God. Here it comes again. Only took 2 posts.
For the record, since no one has seemed to notice and only enabled this more: YOUR REPLY IS LIKELY A NON-SEQUITUR.
This woman is AMERICAN, not “OVERSEAS”. At least, there is nothing to state she is “overseas”.
That she’s in an AFWM relationship but purports to abhor same in others:
This is a little like billionaires using public forums to implore for HIGHER tax, thereby seeking to protect themselves from the expectation of paying more themselves.
It’s actually an expression of selfishness:
The preference that others do what you yourself are unwilling to do.
Let me add that I looked up her photo and I would TOTALLY creampie her.
YUP..!
A nice thing about getting with asian women IN ASIA is that they’re free of the views of the article author. You get honky haters and some can turn out to be b*tches, sure, but if that’s so, it’s NOT owing to the effects of feminism and multiculturalism.
And then there are tons of great ones, too, many of whom harbor Honky Fetishes.
So it tooootally works out for both.
That poor guy is in for a world of misery.
Have heard this for years.
But some Chinese women are VERY strong-willed.......one of my BF’s married one.......
No joke. Doesn't matter how hot she looks. Doesn't matter how good the bedroom gymnastics are. Being married to that screaming pile of neuroses simply isn't worth it.
You obviously have not seen her “village” video ... I’ll find it and send it to you
you have mail
Why is she still dating him?
So as a youngster she was peer-taught to be obsessed with “race” in the form of obsessing over having a “white” boyfriend, and no she is again obsessed about “race” and acting prejudiced towards a man she loves, out of a racist guilt that she should have had a racial preference for “her own kind”.
The only non-racist attitude is to not be obsessed with “race” to begin with.
Yeah, I know a Chinese woman who can literally talk you to death. She is relentless and never stops until she gets her way.
*stealing this
*sigh* As if ALL us white women are hateful communist harpies.
I tire of these threads always turning into white-girl-bashing fests while extolling the great oriental woman. And indeed, apparently that’s the main theme in this 200-post thread.
And generally, men speaking of women as if they are dogs, breeds of which to compare (yet it seems to be a forum for a specialty club).
Along with other subjects that bring it out, obviously the presumption on FR is that every poster is a white man.
“I tire of these threads always turning into white-girl-bashing fests while extolling the great oriental woman.”
Me too,but I get a kick out of it.
I often wish there was a camera so we could see how very “desirable” the men who post the insults are.
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She is a racist idiot. My wife is Chinese, grew up in SF’s China Town. We have been together 26 years. I could care less what her race is...and she feels likewise. Mind you she is very aware of her ethnicity...but it doesn’t make a damn bit of difference in our relationship.
“They’ve gotten to the point that, it’s more ridiculous than real.”
In our house we call it “fake diversity.”
“However, if anyone thinks they are submissive and allow a man to walk all over them, they have probably never had a Filipina.”
You got that right LOL. Whenever I go to the RP, even alone, I have “armed’ bodyguards picking me up. She’s related to the Marcos clan haha
Portrayed as animals by influential media and treated as commodities by women they attempt to build lives with, such reciprocal views of women are to be expected, are they not?
If you were to crack open several bad eggs in a row, would you keep trying eggs from that carton?
Jaded opinion comes from jading experience.
I’ll spare you long winded personal anecdotes.
How did she miss the cut?
Yes, and the same could be said for men, historically not to mention recent. And I see it alot right here on FR. Which is why the *sigh*. It gets old.
Personal anecdotes on white women and oriental women - you fetishers all seem to congregate here together. Yet I don’t see many oriental women posting here. At the same time you all seem to presume only white males are posting here, but there are plenty females of guess which demo? Hello?!
We all have personal anecdotes. Useless. Let me tell you about my strictly materialistic shallow harpy of an Filipina ex-SIL (my bro has a thing for orientals, as he has been with a Chinese woman ever since, but she is highly educated). Anyway, he divorced her 20 years ago and got custody of the kids whom she didn’t really want to deal with anyway.
But let’s not split hairs about silly personal experience. I see plenty white women who are just fine - even liberals.
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