queer
No, not “queer.”
It is “questioning” — those who are yet decided.
This story is pathetic. He makes the change and thinks that suddenly he’s a woman and his family, church, friends, co-workers are all going to be OK with that and go along with his sick charade? He’s surprised when they all walk away from him?
He’s got deeper psych problems than just thinking he’s a woman. He’s totally out of touch with reality and how other people perceive weirdos like him.