I was 35 at my wedding and turned 36 on our honeymoon. My son was born late 38 and it took no time. All is fine. And I had no experience.
I’m glad it all worked out for you and your family.
You followed the plan that worked for you.
You are blessed with wisdom.
Good for you and congratulations.
I think what people are getting at, that fertility declines with age in both men and women. She may well have time to have children, but her odds are not as good as they would have been a decade ago.