I don’t think you get it. A gay phalanx entering this bar would be outside on there asses bleeding and with broken noses and perhaps bones. No one would be able to tell the cops who did it and the cops wouldn’t spend any time checking into it.
This might not be the case in middle to upper middle class neighborhoods. This is not one of those.
I understood. I have seen cultural areas like this too. I was just continuing with my bewilderment about their psychological behavior that harms their own cause. If they truly want to be accepted, this they need to stop first or EVERY demographic is going to be like the ones you describe.