I know a gay guy who maintains his IDF special forces training and physique. He carries no sort of entitled gay mentality or even external clues. I saw one guy, who knew who he was gay, come close to provoking a confrontation about it until a mutual friend whispered in his ear. The guy couldn’t get out of the room fast enough.
Bottom line always assume that anyone can kick your ass.
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Words I live by.
Also, live like a Christian. Treat people by the golden rule. Be ready to defend yourself and others.