What does your lack of awareness at all times equate to, Edd?
I don’t have a lack of awareness.
I spent much of the sixties under the charge of a violent female pedophile in the afternoons. Some of the other kids in that place had it worse because the woman was their mom and nobody was ever coming to take them out of there. The woman in question had (as most people would expect) friends just like her.
I watched the things you are ludicrously attempting to assert were rare happen all the time.
You are stuck in a Pollyanna fantasy because you were fortunate to live a sheltered life, and it makes you upset to have people burst your bubble.