[al baby]

I disagree you can learn a heck of a lot about folks while in there home even for a short amount of time they are not on guard and on their own turf

[Jim W N]

You’re on the surface of a very deep ocean and have no idea of the strong undercurrents of the deep between two people, especially a husband and a wife.

All we can tell and judge are symptoms from our own narrow and limited background and experience.