I hadn’t looked at your post before I posted the next comment - I was right on the money as in straight from the farmyard
The Facebook Attitude of today asks “How can I best present myself as a bullied victim?”, not How can I be the most practical or considerate of others in this room?
There’s always going to be someone saying ‘We support U and are SO PROUD of U!!!” That’s who someone like this listens to. The poster who provides the most ‘likes’ and makes their name trend on Twitter. “WOW! Just look at how popular I am, so I must be right. they like me, they really like me!!!!”