It’s not a compromise at all. And frankly, I’m not the one trying to impugn a mother’s virtue for feeding a baby, so who’s it really “all about?”
Sure, you can have a different opinion, but when you pull accusations out of your poop chute to malign those who won’t submit to your parochialism I see little difference between you and a muslim.
There are multiple ways to feed a baby, and modesty certainly does NOT mean forcing the rest of society to adapt to what you are comfortable with.