Problem is, she would not want you doing the hitting.
Her problem is she is not interested in any man who might be interested in her.
> Her problem is she is not interested in any man who might be interested in her.
That’s the bottom line. Her list is completely unrealistic for what she’s got to offer in return.
“financially secure, handsome, sense of humour, intelligent, adventurous and wants children”
A financially secure man doesn’t need the main thing she has to offer.
A financially secure, handsome man is selecting among fashion models, not last century’s models.
A financially secure, handsome man with a sense of humor would have a big belly laugh at this woman thinking she could attract his interest.
A financially secure, handsome, with a sense of humor, intelligent man knows it is not in his interests to assume ownership of a single-woman-with-kids situation which is in almost all cases completely dysfunctional.
A financially secure, handsome, with sense of humour, intelligent, adventurous man is going for more exotic specimens than this Plain Jane.
A financially secure, handsome, with sense of humour, intelligent, adventurous man who wants children isn’t going to seek to have them with a woman who may enter menopause at any moment.
This woman is flat-out delusional. She will either settle for a good man with flaws, end up with a bad man who will make her life worse, or be alone. Those are her real world options and no amount of money is going to buy more.