An IT executive should be able to make some pretty good money as an independent contractor live well in some place other than NY. Texas might be a great option.
We are moving to Ocala, Florida. I rented a nice condo and my husband has an hour and a half drive to look around. When we all get settled and adjusted we will most likely buy a house again. We have family there who I can not wait to be near again. From what I am hearing I am going to love it there.
BTW everyone salutes our bold move....except my (ex) liberal friends who voted for her......... go figure that one out.......