Soooooooo, how many broken families due largely to alcoholism have you had to try and put back together and clean up after?
“3 or more, is or is well on the way to a serious problem.”
3 or more in EVERY 24 hour period, maybe, but 3 or more in any given 24 hour period means nothing. That’s the fallacy in your logic. By your standards, someone could have a half dozen cocktails one night and not another one for a year and they have a “serious problem”. Nobody believes that. Perhaps you misinterpreted what you heard.