Ya know, I was so very straight laced in HS and college my male friends would sing “Only the Good Die Young” to me. So let me say, in my prudish opinion, these allegations are so below the radar it’s ridiculous.
I’ve mention before my nerdish granduating class (all 42) None of us drank. One girl broke up with her longtime boy friend because he smoked a cigarette. I’m fairly certain that most male and females were virgins. We were friends. Just spoke to two male members of class this morning on FB who live miles away. We still are friends.