I agree that it was stupid, and very immoral on top of that. But it has already hurt her a lot - she has not, and cannot, lead a normal life. Stupid should hurt...but forever? Really, you don’t have any room for allowing her to get out from under her dark cloud, for any kind of repentence? Wow, just wow.
She could just choose to live a quiet life instead of constantly inserting herself into the media.