I am saving your post to quote from in the future because it is so incredibly accurate and should be repeated in every one of these threads. I have gone round and round in real life with people who are destitute but continue to flush their lives down the toilet. Marijuana becomes the most important component in their lives and they literally will refuse to give it up until their dying breath.
As someone who is part of the Celebrate recovery ministry you two are are my Hero’s God bless both of you