I dont want to belong to any club that would accept me as a member.
This guy Khamil got it wrong: he said hed boycott a club that did not want him as a member. Allegedly.
A FReeper a few days ago pointed out that it's always about respect with these people.
However, it only goes one way: They demand it yet give as little as possible to others, maybe because in their culture to give deference or respect is a sign of weakness.
Like tipping, they are also niggardly with giving respect.
As an aside, Khalil has an interesting last name. A scantling is defined as "dimensions for parts of a structure, especially in shipbuilding." I wonder if his emancipated male line ancestor worked as a shipbuilder.