Lots do.
Tons do.
Read the comments.
i know this! I really don’t have a problem with it either, but the wife has to be on board. and for the OP to first declare- “NO man wants this” and then say “ yeah, they do but so what?” is contrary. If you are going to come at me, have your argument on point.
again, to be clear- this is ok by me if all parties are in. and I do believe it was expected behavior of wives in the 50’s and 60’s. “Mad Men” got their material from somewhere!!! and Samantha always had a drink in her hand for Darrin on Bewitched. ( and she coulda turned him into a frog, instead)