You say you must move out, which is what I would expect you to say. What you are NOT saying is that you are planning and prepared to be where you will be needed in the coming fight. (I don’t blame you one bit.)
This is another point about our side, we do not rise up to defend others, (well yes a few do here and there,) we look out for number one. Consider just one example: when one of our side is arrested on something like say a gun charge in a liberal city, our side immediately castigates him as a fool and proudly states the resolution to never go to such a place.
You cannot have a civil war when one side will do anything other than fight. Tell me how I am wrong.
If you live in red mid western state your legislature and governor will temporarily fill in and will be there for you. Of this I am sure. But make no mistake the converse is also true, if you live in a blue state, I feel for you. You will be the enemy my friend. Either fight guerrilla style or get to a red state.
Yes, we are often a bunch of backstabbing fools. I see it in political races all the time where "our" people join with the Democrats in destroying one of our candidates.
There is such a thing as a tipping point, a line not to be crossed. It has always been that with every war.