However, adoption can be as difficult for the birthmother as abortion. It is physically more demanding, and it can leave a bigger attachment-wound when she has to part with her little one, even if she didn't "want" the little one to begin with.
Adoption would be the ONLY right and just solution if she and the child's father cannot properly parent their child, but most men AND women will be no better than they *have* to be --- even if it involves complicity in murder.
I know what you are saying, but I don’t see how any “attachment wound” could be bigger than death of a child....