I agree with you, I do not like the multi-player games because I take my time in playing and only have a session once or twice a week. Multi-player would have me playing constantly to keep up with me ‘group’ and I won’t do that.
So because of that I won’t be buying or playing Fallout 76.
I am around level 45 playing Skyrim VR. The resolution at around 480, which seems necessary to handle a 90 frame rate, suffers in comparison to playing the game on a PC. But once you get past that, the immersion is incredible. You move from situations where your character is in danger to the feeling that YOU are in danger.