Those misogynists are fewer than they appear. They’re just extremely loud. The number of classic sexists is much larger, but most mean no harm. They just long for the return of an imagined youth where women were pretty and available. I doubt a tenth of them would say half in person.
I believe most here just value women who are feminine, not feminists. It shouldn’t be a crime to dress well or appreciate someone’s physical appearance. It’s just a shame that the lines of propriety have all but disappeared. I love women, but I prefer mine clothed and coiffed in public.
I’m with those men. I’m no feminist either. And it is as bad a child rape to falsely accuse someone of child rape! But some male FReepers are really unfair to actual victims. Even those young men and women (some still minors) abused by coaches or team doctors, maybe they’ve forgotten how naive kids are when they know little about the body etc. Kids want to seem cool with things, and a doctor whose intent is to molest, is going to take advantage of that.
A lot of people blissfully don’t know how sneaky a grooming molester can be. I’m glad they don’t know. But when FReepers say “no way that would have happened to me at 15,” they do not know that. Many, many young teens don’t have the judgment adults glean with time on the planet.