Pro-life people told us we should have let the pregnancy abort “normally” (which was an option), that it’s God’s will. So, in their eyes, my wife had an abortion.
If your wife had a miscarriage the fetus was already non viable ....
Cleaning up her lady parts afterwards is not an abortion
What unusual things you’ve been told?
A miscarriage is not “aborting normally”...no such term actually
A miscarriage is a spontaneous loss of pregnancy
An abortion is not spontaneous
If one drinks cases of quinine water or takes RU486 to induce a miscarriage that’s not a miscarriage it’s a self induced abortion
If she’s sitting in the tub or after sex or drinking a milk shake watching tv a preggers gal bleeds heavily from her vagina in ways no need to further elaborate on here through no fault of her own then it’s a miscarriage
Surely you see the difference
You shouldn’t listen to extremists. Perhaps these people shun antibiotics and other “unnatural” medical interventions, it doesn’t mean you should put any value to such opinions in your life.
If they want to take that extreme view of things let them keep it amongst themselves. Don’t let it effect you and your family.