I agree. In fact I would put it - I know people who should NOT have kids.
Run into quite a few that had 0 business with kids.
My best friends succeeded in adopting a fine baby boy a few years ago. That kid won the powerball in terms of loving parents.
I’m one of those. Serious clinical depression on both my side and my wife’s; if a kid got the worst of both of us it would be seriously Bad News.