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I’m in My 40s, Child-Free and Happy. Why Won’t Anyone Believe Me?
The New York Times ^ | 07/05/18 | Glynnis MacNicol

Posted on 07/10/2018 12:17:25 PM PDT by Simon Green

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To: Simon Green

I kinda believe her. When I was 40, I felt the same. Now 70, still feel the same.


121 posted on 07/10/2018 2:18:49 PM PDT by MayflowerMadam (Have an A-1 day.)
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To: Lazamataz

nice. they can keep you in stripper money! :))


122 posted on 07/10/2018 2:19:14 PM PDT by ronniesgal ( I wonder what his FR handle is??)
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To: Simon Green

This reminds me of the sad story of the old woman found half eaten by her cats.


123 posted on 07/10/2018 2:20:49 PM PDT by higgmeister
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To: A_perfect_lady

My Mom is in memory care; I visit every day & see in the dining room the victims of “dump and run” as practiced by their sorry offspring whom they seldom see.

Wife & I have no children, but two `goddaughters’, children of her best friend.

We’ll soon be 70. The one who dies first is the lucky one for not dying alone. Them’s the breaks.


124 posted on 07/10/2018 2:24:20 PM PDT by elcid1970 ("The Second Amendment is more important than Islam. Buy ammo.")
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To: Simon Green

Some people want kids some don’t.


125 posted on 07/10/2018 2:32:58 PM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: Boomer
I occasionally wondered if I should have had kids then after .0003 seconds the feeling passes and I forget about it again for another ten years.

Did you ever wonder if you did have a kid and someday there might be a knock on the door...

126 posted on 07/10/2018 2:45:05 PM PDT by higgmeister
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To: Simon Green
Our Author....

She's childless because nobody ever even thought of F'n that !!

127 posted on 07/10/2018 3:15:00 PM PDT by Ouderkirk (Life is about ass, you're either covering, hauling, laughing, kicking, kissing, or behaving like one)
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To: A_perfect_lady
HOWEVER... when you talk about passing on what you learned from your parents, or from your own life, that I do understand. I have no children, but as an English teacher, I've had a chance to contribute a little, at least, to about 2,000 children so far. And I have developed a curriculum of classic novels that is very rooted to my own values and my parents and grandparents, so... the way you said that makes sense to me.

Wow! That is amazing! We should all hope we could leave a legacy such as you surely will.

My mother was an elementary school teacher and I have had some feedback that at least a few of her students remembered her with fondness.

128 posted on 07/10/2018 3:15:05 PM PDT by higgmeister
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To: Simon Green
said the incel b!tch...
129 posted on 07/10/2018 3:30:59 PM PDT by Chode ( WeÂ’re America, Bitch!)
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To: Ouderkirk

Oh,stop it.

I often wish there was a little FReeper camera so we could all see what we look like when insulting another’s looks.

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130 posted on 07/10/2018 3:35:34 PM PDT by Mears
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To: Simon Green

What’s not to believe?

In any group, there are outliers.


131 posted on 07/10/2018 3:37:57 PM PDT by Jim Noble (p)
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To: BenLurkin

If Lilith had and older, colder sister...


132 posted on 07/10/2018 3:38:09 PM PDT by Sirius Lee (In God We Trust, In Trump We MAGA)
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To: Simon Green

Good for you. Nobody cares.


133 posted on 07/10/2018 3:38:58 PM PDT by petitfour (APPEAL TO HEAVEN)
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To: Simon Green

Frankly my dear, I really do not give a damn.


134 posted on 07/10/2018 3:40:11 PM PDT by dforest (Never let a Muslim cut your hair.)
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To: Simon Green

Why does it bother her so much that no one believes her?


135 posted on 07/10/2018 3:41:42 PM PDT by FrdmLvr
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To: Mears

I am not the one trying to justify my life choices like our author.

If she wanted to be childless, then have at it.

My sister decided not to have kids, and that was her choice. OTOH, she doesn’t try to convince others how great her decision was, as though she deserves some sort of special recognition.

This is simply virtue signaling, and I for one, am not going to give her any quarter.


136 posted on 07/10/2018 3:41:51 PM PDT by Ouderkirk (Life is about ass, you're either covering, hauling, laughing, kicking, kissing, or behaving like one)
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To: Simon Green

40s is still relatively young and being along can still be very enjoyable. By the 70s and 80s for MOST people, not all, being alone is suddenly a burden, no parents, no siblings, no kids, no nieces and/or nephews ... it’s difficult, as I’ve seen with friends who’ve made this life choice. Some do well. Not easy to judge others’ choices.


137 posted on 07/10/2018 3:42:32 PM PDT by EDINVA
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To: elcid1970
We’ll soon be 70. The one who dies first is the lucky one for not dying alone. Them’s the breaks.

Yeah, that pretty much sums it up, eh? There's no way of guaranteeing anything.

138 posted on 07/10/2018 3:56:11 PM PDT by A_perfect_lady
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To: higgmeister

It’s often quite fun. I hope to make an impact, not so much on a personal level like “being remembered” but in more of a “helped to shape them” way. It wouldn’t bother me if they didn’t remember me, as long as they remembered the books and movies, and what they meant. I pick stories with morals, and emphasize the morals. I’m (obviously) not interested in the modern grievance/diversity culture. I like stories that are about basic right vs wrong, and noble attributes like keeping your promises, or doing the right thing. Making wise decisions.


139 posted on 07/10/2018 4:00:05 PM PDT by A_perfect_lady
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To: DIRTYSECRET

Oh, you know she’s all about cats and boxed wine.


140 posted on 07/10/2018 4:37:11 PM PDT by SIDENET
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