Seems to me what they are saying is that arrogant feminist women who have somehow still retained a desire to have children, need to find the right pajama boy to marry. This way, at least according to the edgy TV commercials, he can do the laundry, watch the kids, clean the house, sit in the passenger seat all without making a fuss and let the woman achieve her self actualization completely unburdened.
In other words, women should marry a weak sap so they can be as selfish as they please.
The kind of man you are describing is generally known as “cuck”
Being a stay-at-home father is wise.