I worked with a gal that has a PHD, she was one of the few PHD’s I have met that had common sense.
I enjoyed her very much and used to go out to breakfast and go hiking with her, but I always felt to low on the totem pole to ask her on a serious date.
My messy marital status may have contributed to the situation.
Now I am a freeborn old man!
It’s all a seductive dance, and I have 2 left feet LOL
Here is the thing, yall are different but share more in common than in other camps, the trick is to get them comfortable in your camp.
Who wants to share a foxhole with someone that aint on your side?
You lose faith,in your partner and its over.