Sorry, Ruth. The word “submissive” and phrase “subject to” is still in the Bible. Now if she had been blindfolded and just, she would also explain the concept of the greatest love, when a man lays down his life for his friend, which should include his wife.
Ephesians, Colossians, 1 Peter
I don’t think the state should ever have the deciding word in whether someone has the right to life or not.