That is why she didn't show her ID? He obviously didn't recognizer her. Is he supposed to know every family member of every resident in the Home owners association?
Might be feasible if there were like ten families or so, but how many are in this one?
What is he supposed to do when he doesn't recognize an owner or a family member of an owner?
Typically, if a civilian demands to see my ID while I am on a property that I own, I tell them to get lost.