OK, that’s interesting, and I’ve heard something like it before.
Two things:
1. As I believe I have been saved eternally, the fate of the unsaved soul is of minimal, if any, relevance to me and not worth arguing with fellow believers.
2. When faced with alternative interpretations of doctrine, it is my habit to assume the more... restrictive version, thus avoiding assuming a permissivenes which may or may not exist.
(Short version for phone posting. Cheers!)