“So there’s no way to discuss this topic casually?”
Ah, when people don’t agree with your kooky theory, you call them traitors, but when it’s convenient for you, you are just “discussing things casually”. Sorry, can’t have it both ways.
You mean whenever anyone needs to know what’s kooky and what’s not kooky, you’re the specialist on the topic?
And you can do this without having any ability to demonstrate a connection between particular instances of speech or behaviour and a succinct definition of kooky?