How do you know he’s at fault?
I don’t give either my sperm or egg donor the time of day and for good reason.
I just imagined the next 20 comments in this subthread, and neither one of us ended it particularly satisfied.
I say we just forgo the whole thing. If nothing else, it would be a better us of our time.
There is a Commandment from the God of the universe to us all, with a promise attached. Honor thy egg and sperm donor so your life may be long in the land.
Like em or not. The biology of family is crucially sacred. That is why no divorce. No IVF. No surrocacy. Adoptive parents are to be loved for their great love. But honor to the biological.
God gave us biology.