I never knew how hospitable she was until I experienced the lackadaisical hospitality of others. You never had to worry if a dish would be passed to you or a drink replenished. She would catch a person’s first glance or just simply notice everything. She knew the glance at the clock when someone’s favorite TV show was starting, or when to take out the new jigsaw puzzle. These things may sound minor but they weren’t; they were manifestations of a heart full of hospitality.