I know that. It’s criminal.
You could not be more wrong, setting judgmentalism aside.
Not all terminal illnesses are without terrible pain. This is the purpose of morphine: to allow your loved one to pass without suffering and to make oneself ready for the passing into what’s inevitable.
You probably will not understand it until you give hospice yourself. Hopefully you can prepare yourself by volunteering at a facility where there are many awaiting by themselves.