One thing the parish did make a ruling on was "no make-up." It was turning into a fashion display, like those poor little tiara-crowned beauty contestants being pushed out into catwalk modeling pageants.
The mothers do this to them. Especially (I regret to observe) the Hispanics.
Our Asst. Pastor, Fr. Jesus, remarked that he'd like to put limits on the Quinceaneras as well, but he doesn't want to risk civil war among the moms!
I’ve seen some mighty fanciful dresses, but no makeup. That said, one can’t tell the cost just by looking: you can get frou-frou frocks at Burlington Coat Factory or the flea market for under $40.
My pastor doesn’t allow Quinceaneras in our church, although he’ll give a recognition and blessing during Mass. The families (and the musicians, *sigh*) have to go to other parishes. I realize that’s probably not an easy thing in your area, but we’re kind of near the Big City.
That is a great idea!