I'll just tell you this:
Reed's parents hated Justine for coming into his life and taking (fine and loving) control of his life. She had been a nurse before carrying his bag on the tour.
Reed's parents were insufferable drunks who beat him often when he was young.
You need to get a clue.
Reed's behavior has been far from picture perfect, but people are created differently by varying lifetime experiences. Reed's experiences were not the most sublime. His parents are lowlifes.
I dont have to answer any of your points, there is more than enough information available regarding Patrick Reed, from his cheating on the college team, stealing from a teammate and eventually being removed from the team. And what makes the difference whether I am a man or woman?