"She...doesn't want to waste time being someone's girlfriend for years, especially when he has no clear intention of offering her marriage or the commitment she wants.
'The way the system is built, masculine men who aim to settle down themselves and want to commit and have a family, will love a decisive woman who knows what she wants and will give her the commitment she deserves, if they are serious about her and in love.
If not, they will say no and that helps both parties to move on quickly, without giving false hopes or promises.<
The system only ensures that you don't offer full husband benefits to such a man, that only wants to offer you girlfriend status.
I can't really find fault with that. The woman doesn't want to give a guy unlimited sex who has no intention of making a commitment to her.