I am going to clarify your points.
1. Men are resources, utility, to be used by the woman.
2. Women fall in love with mens money and status, not the man. They discard the man but the thing they have always loved, the money, that they keep around.
Women are completely faithful to the object of their devotion, which is, of course, the man’s wallet.
The man himself, however, is treated as disposable.
It's not the money.....it's the stuff!