Gaaaaahhh! No kidding! That just makes you a slave to a set of rules that are ever malleable and ever changing at the whims of...who?
If one has a consensual (by whatever standards are in place and understood by someone or some group) sexual relationship at a given date and time, and then some feminist speaker comes on campus and convinces women that a guy who didn’t have a signed contract is a rapist, you would be in violation of their arbitrary and ever changing rules.
Insanity.
Sex outside marriage is ALWAYS risky, even in our liberated age
This sort of crapola is a result of the hok-up culture.
If you’re going to have one night stands, then you get what’s coming to you. It isn’t without risk. The risk used to be STD’s, now it’s russian roulette with your entire life