Preach it!
I have five children. Two are the hardest working people you could ever imagine. Working their way through the university of their choice. Involved in all sorts of church and community activities.
Two are almost the laziest people in the world. Cannot get them to maneuver out of their comfort zone for any reason. They will work, but only if given a specific job and told what to do.
And the fifth is looking at the two sets and still hasn’t made up her mind which direction she wants to go.
For the younger ones I point to older ones and say, “Choose.”