Very thoughtful post, yours. Thanks. I can’t get too involved in this, as I am only a customer, and not a part-owner. But I sure hate to see a situation like this...regulations crushing the American dream.
Yep, talking to a local lawyer seems the best way to go.
These one-size-fits-all legislated answers are both too much and too little.
People with businesses should want to try to be handicap-accessible to show consideration. At the same time there shouldn’t be nannies that say it has to be done only one way.
Caring is supposed to be a two way street, not a carve-out at gunpoint for one party.
Tell them its just a undocumented bathroom and thank them for their concern