causes a victim to question their own feelings, instincts and sanity, giving the abusive partner power and control.
The term gaslighting comes from a 1938 stage play called Gaslight, in which a husband attempts to drive his wife crazy by dimming the lights in their home (which were powered by gas), then denies that the lights change when the wife asks him about them.
Ahhhh. Thanks. I didn’t know the origin of it, either. How sadistic.