I see she has assigned the light fixture a gender, female. This is unacceptable. She has to allow the chandelier to find itself, and to decide if it is male or female, or one of the 58 other genders. Only then will she be able to have a committed relationship with it.
When I was a kid, this sort of thing would have been an example of insanity. Today, it’s actually taken seriously.
Bet she’s also racist. No black lights.