Harry doesn’t have those unfortunate ears, the weak chin, the overbite or the pencil neck so he’ll never look like an inbred Howdy-Doodie as his legal father does. But, perhaps you’re right, he does have poor judgment in the female department just like Charles. Diana was beautiful but very unhappy and apparently ill-suited for the role of princess. Having every public move scrutinized, everything she said, everything she wore, it usually takes a woman born into that to be able to thrive. There are exceptions, for instance Melania Trump. But, she’s a rare one. Then, there’s Camilla Parker-Bowles and this Markle chick. Neither will ever fit in or belong. At least Charles does appear to know and understand the role his amorous interest should play. Harry appears not to understand, but it’s not too late.
I definitely think I could find a way to be “suited” to marry into the Royals. If I were and didn’t like it, I would keep my mouth shut and enjoy Balmoral, Windsor Castle KP and all the other fabulous stuff that goes along with it.