I have an iPad and a couple of computers that can no longer be updated. It’s not Apple’s fault; look at Moore’s law. They’re just responding to a marketplace driven by technology and consumer desire.
If they were to stop what they are doing to hold your hand and give you infinite life out of every product they make, they would go out of business.
Cars, refrigerators, microwave ovens, and yes, even cell phones have a useful product life. Many of my electronics are serving useful purposes not having been updated in years; many others are on the donate/recycle pile.
I feel your pain, but really, it’s ok. It’s normal...
You are talking to a man who has worked 25 years in ERP software and who has a Master’s degree in Management Information Systems. I know what I am talking about. I have also worked on major projects at both Apple and Microsoft. You are spouting off about deliberate software-induced obsolescence like it is a good thing. All I am saying is that if Apple refuses to update its hardware’s OS then they should be required to unlock the hardware and let the market determine if there is a market for third-party OS and Apps to fill the demand.