“How hard is it, mom, to sleep and nurse the baby at the same time? Effing hell.”
Probably too busy with “#metoo” to feed the baby.
A woman who has given birth two days ago, who may have just fed and changed the baby, is certainly entitled to ask the baby’s father to care for the child so she can take a nap. Don’t blame her for being lazy or vain.
She probably did have hints that he was a bad man with a bad temper...